Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Finding a Balance?

I am writing this post mostly to get my thoughts out of my head about an issue I have spend way to much time thinking about.  Many of us hunters, fishermen, or outdoors men have heard the cliche' saying about trying to find a balance between spending time in the outdoors and spending time at home with our families.  I know I have heard many comments about how some families never see their husband or dad during the hunting season.  I have heard about situations where the dad spends so much time away from his family during hunting season that they are in the "dog house" the rest of the year trying to make up for it.  Trips to Disney Land, vacations to Hawaii, or the wife getting a new car are some examples I have heard of hunters trying to "make up" for how much time they spent away from their family during hunting season.

My Hawke Optics Spotting Scope
When I hear this, part of me starts thinking about how I may be able to spend more time in the outdoors.  Part of me lusts after the idea of spending weeks chasing elk in the back country of Idaho uninterrupted with work or other obligations.... While this side of me is jealous of this idea of being such a "devoted" hunter, the reality always sets in on where my priorities are and where they need to stay!

A leader in my church has been quoted as saying, "No other success can compensate for failure in the home.” (-David O. McKay) and this is the foundation to my thoughts and feelings.  As much as I would love to spend countless days in the woods uninterrupted, I would much rather be known as a father who would put his kids before anything else.  I would much rather be the husband my wife needs me to be than the "successful hunter" the social media and other hunting/outdoor sources convince you that you need to be.  I am a believer that the more time you are able to spend in the mountains, the higher the chance you have at getting the animal you are after, but when it comes to putting hunting above/before family, it just doesn't sit well with me.

The idea that a hunter can or should find a balance between spending time with his family and spending time away from them in the outdoors is a concept that needs to be forgotten!  We hear quotes and phrases stating how hunting teaching youth how to be patient, caring, decent, law-abiding people who know how to love and treat things with respect yet then they are told to be a "successful" hunter you have to neglect what is most important and devote themselves to doing one thing and one thing only... HUNT!  If you eat, sleep, breath or dream about anything other than hunting then you aren't going to be the type of hunter you could become.
My wife's bull elk
In my line of light, the successful hunters are the ones who spend more time with their family (especially during hunting season) than they do away from them, yet still find time to get out and pursue their passion of hunting.  There is a time and season for everything where some people are able to spend more time than others in the outdoors without neglecting their responsibilities and obligations at home.  Because every individual is different, there is no set number of hours, days, or even weeks that could/should be spent at home or in the mountains.  To portray that it is bad to take a week off work and go hunting is as far from the point I am trying to make as you can get.  The point is that there should never "balance" between hunting and spending time with my wife and kids... As I have said before, if it wasn't for my family, hunting and the outdoors would mean nothing to me.  There may be some of you who feel I am overstepping my bounds and saying when someone should or shouldn't go hunting, and my response is that I am just saying that if there ever was a question to what is more important to you, let your actions speak louder than words.  When you choose to be home during hunting season rather than being told or asked not to go, then you know that there is no balance... your family is way more important!
My little family

Monday, January 12, 2015

Size Doesn't Matter

This weekend I had the opportunity to go out ice fishing.  This trip was not going to be a serious endeavor to try and land a trophy trout, instead it was a adventure with my priorities placed in order!  I asked my daughter if she wanted to go ice fishing with me and her response was, "Can we catch baby fish..."  Her response set the tone for our outing as her and I put on all of our snow clothes, got our gear ready, picked up snacks at the gas station, and headed out on the ice at a local pond.  My daughter's only requests for this trip was that she wanted to catch "baby fish" and she needed her sled.

We drilled holes and placed our JawJackers out... This process usually takes about 10 minutes for me to get all 5 of my holes drilled and rods set up, but this time it took us about 30 minutes.  As soon as one hole was drilled, my daughter saw me start scooping the ice chunks out of the hole... from her prespective I was scooping the ice out of the hole and putting in on my boots... My daughter wanted to be like her Daddy so she asked me to put the ice and water on her boots too :/ She then proceeded to lay down on the ice and move the slushy ice around with her hands... Well needless to say I was very glad I knew my daughter well enough to pack some extra clothes in case she got wet.

Once our rods were all set up, we started catching fish.  Here is a video of our first fish...

After our first attempt failed, we played around on the sled for a bit until another JawJacker went off.  This time we were a little more successful!

We caught a few more "baby fish" while we played around on the ice with her sled. 

My daughter loved spending time on the ice with her Dad sledding, fishing, and running around.  We were there for just over an hour but we laughed more in that one hour than most people do in a while month! My daughter loved to sit in her Dad's new ice fishing chair and tell me how big she was.  Total, we caught 4 perch and 6 small trout which were slightly larger than the minnows I typically use for bait :) but on this trip, size didn't matter... what mattered was that my daughter had fun and memories were made!

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

JawJacker Giveaway

ice fishing
Alright people,  I have definitely had some adventures lately.  Sad to say I haven't done as much ice fishing as I would have liked, but none the less I have been able to get out on the ice a few times.  One of the things that kept me off the ice a few weeks was vehicle problems... On my way home from ice fishing a few weeks ago, my rear left tire decided it didn't want to tied down any more and popped off at 65 miles per hour!  With the sparks flying and my nerves rushing, I luckily pulled off to the side of the road and watched my tire plummet down to the bottom of a canyon!  Long story short, I was glad I did a lot more praying than cussing in this situation and I am glad that things didn't end worse than they did!
jeep tire fell off

Between vehicle problems and the busyness of the holidays I counted myself lucky to get out when I did, and luckily I had decent success every time I've been fishing so far.  I can honestly say that my success would not be as high if I didn't have the JawJackers!  While other people next to me are getting skunked and not catching fish, I have all my JawJackers spread out trying to locate fish and up my odds of getting one to bite.  On one of my trips this year I was fishing with 5 other people which meant we could have 25 rods out...  We weren't having success so we started drilling more holes and putting out every rod we had.  Luckily through this process we started catching fish.  The interesting part about it was that every fish we caught was on the JawJacker and was out of the same exact hole! That day we ended up catching 18 fish while the group next to us walked away with 2. 
Here is a video of me ice fishing Henry's Lake in Idaho!

I've said it again and again but every time I go ice fishing next to someone who doesn't use the JawJackers, I am reminded of why I have become such a strong believer in them.  Don't get me wrong, you still need to know where to fish and what to use for bait, but the JawJacker increases your chances of changing fish every time you use them!  I have caught some amazing fish through the ice and couldn't imagine fishing without the JawJacker.  Just like last year I want to share this joy with someone else by giving away a free JawJacker.  In partner with the JawJacker Twitter account @JawJackerFishin we are giving away a free JawJacker to one lucky follower so here is how you can get entered!
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Remember that you can tweet about this giveaway every day to get two more entries for your chance to win this JawJacker!